By Dr. Frederick Abeles

Published April 27, 2025

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TMJ pain isn’t just a sore jaw—it can disrupt everything, every day. The tension, clicking, headaches, and discomfort radiating from your jaw to your neck and shoulders—it can be exhausting. You’ve tried pain relievers, and maybe even seen a few specialists, but the relief is temporary at best. So, what can you do at home to ease the pain while you determine your next step? We have a few suggestions on how to relieve TMJ pain. 

Ease Tension with Gentle Jaw Movements

Your jaw is constantly in motion—talking, chewing, or even clenching when you’re stressed. If it’s feeling especially overworked, try slow, controlled movements to release tension. Open your mouth slightly, shift your jaw side to side, and massage the area gently. The goal isn’t to push through pain but to remind your muscles how to relax. For more, try the following exercises:

  • Open and Close Stretch: Open your mouth slowly as wide as you comfortably can, hold for 5 seconds, and then slowly close your mouth. Repeat this stretch 5–10 times.
  • Side-to-Side Stretch: Move your jaw from side to side slowly, holding each position for 5 seconds. Do this for 5–10 repetitions on each side. This helps to stretch the muscles around your jaw joint and can help reduce stiffness.
  • Resisted Opening Stretch: Place your thumb under your chin and gently apply pressure as you try to open your mouth. Hold for 5 seconds, then relax. This can help build strength in your jaw muscles and prevent overuse.

Should You Use Heat or Ice to Soothe the Pain?

Not sure whether to use heat or cold to relieve jaw pain? The answer depends on your unique pain. Heat therapy works by increasing blood flow and relaxing tight muscles, which can be particularly helpful if your TMJ pain is due to muscle tension or stiffness. A warm compress applied for 15-20 minutes can promote circulation and ease soreness. 

On the other hand, cold therapy is more effective for reducing inflammation and numbing sharp pain. Applying an ice pack for a similar interval can help decrease swelling and provide relief if your TMJ pain is caused by joint inflammation. Alternating between heat and cold can sometimes offer the best results, as it helps relax the muscles and control inflammation.

Proper Posture Makes a Difference

A young woman working from home at her computer with proper posture

Poor posture forces your jaw into an unnatural position, leading to muscle fatigue and joint misalignment. So, slumping over your desk, looking down at your phone for hours, etc. can pressure your jaw and neck. 

We recommend you sit upright with your shoulders relaxed, keep your screen at eye level to reduce forward head posture, and ensure your workstation promotes ergonomic alignment as much as possible. Over time, these small adjustments can significantly reduce tension and help prevent TMJ pain.

Rethink What You’re Eating

Unsurprisingly, what you eat also plays a role in alleviating TMJ pain; specifically, crunchy, chewy, or tough foods force your jaw to work overtime. Give it a break with soft, easy-to-chew meals. If you love crunchy snacks, try cutting them into smaller pieces to reduce the strain.

Remember: Unclench Your Jaw 

Stress makes us all clench our jaws without realizing it. If you (or your dentist) notice that you grind your teeth or tense your jaw, take a deep breath and relax your facial muscles. Try the stretches we mentioned earlier to start, but relaxation techniques like deep breathing can also help. Since stress is a major contributor to jaw clenching, learning how to manage it can significantly reduce TMJ symptoms. Try diaphragmatic breathing or the 4-7-8 technique: breathe in for 4 counts, hold for 7, and exhale for 8 counts. This will help calm your nervous system and relieve overall tension.

As you work to break the cycle, remember to unclench your jaw and relax your tongue.

Optimize Your Sleep for TMJ Relief 

Sleeping on your stomach or with your jaw pressed against a pillow can worsen TMJ symptoms. To alleviate this, try sleeping on your back with proper neck support. 

Look for pillows with an ergonomic design that can support the natural curve of your neck. Memory foam or cervical pillows are often recommended as they can provide targeted support, keeping your neck in a neutral position and preventing jaw misalignment. If you’re uncomfortable with back sleeping, try side sleeping with a pillow between your knees to keep your spine aligned and avoid putting pressure on your jaw.

Finally, nightguards can prevent teeth grinding while you sleep and alleviate pressure on your jaw joints. Consult with your dentist to ensure you get one that fits comfortably and is made of high-quality materials.

When Home Remedies Aren’t Enough, You Know Where to Go

If you feel like you’ve tried everything without lasting relief, it’s time for a specialized, expert approach. At the Atlanta Center for TMJ, we don’t just mask the pain—we know how to relieve TMJ pain by uncovering the source and treating it at its root. If you’re tired of the discomfort and trial-and-error quick fixes, let’s find a real solution together.

Book a consultation with our team today and take control of your pain once and for all.